Quotely

No experience is in itself a cause of our success or failure. We do not suffer from the shock of our experiences -- the so called trauma -- but instead we make out of them whatever suits our purposes..

Reflection: You decide what your experiences mean. Begin writing with: “One event I’ve redefined for my growth is…” Reflect on how assigning new meaning can transform pain into power. You are the editor of your past.
The Courage to be Disliked
Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
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